From Candice Schwager and Ken Ditkowsky-A Moment of Silence for Tim Lahrman, a wonderful guardianship activist

Dear Friends of Tim and even a few who did not have the pleasure of knowing him:

It is with deep sadness that I must let you know our brilliant friend Tim Lahrman has apparently passed away, after he suffered a major heart attack Thursday night and has now been confirmed to be with no brain activity and on machines to breath and pump his heart. Tim had a heart attack on August 5, 2016 and went to the hospital but did not tell anyone including Cindy, because he did not want to worry her. He did not tell me either and during the past year, we had become like best friends. He taught me so much about the Americans With Disabilities Act of 1990 and we formed the Foundation for Elder Justice with the slogan ADA in Action! Thursday, I sent him the logo and we both tweaked it. Cases began to come in and we were singing contracts to help people in Missouri, Florida and North Carolina.

The light bulb finally went off in my head and I understood the simplicity of the ADA and the message he tried to convey to me for a year, that I could not grasp because I am no Einstein like Tim. I am blessed to have known a true genius who said to me on his last day coherent, “Candice, I am just an instrument.” In March, when he was arrested on trumped up 17 year old charges that were illegal and past any semblance of a statute of limitations 15 years ago, notwithstanding the US Supreme Court ruled the Sheriff could not hold Tim those 73 days because he was a ward of the State of Indiana 30 years and the State could not have it both ways—to destroy his ability to marry, work, as it stole everything he worked hard to build and left him with no rights as a dead person 15 years, he laughed and told me he thought it was hilarious because he heard cha ching $10,000 a day for false imprisonment. I said “I cannot believe you can laugh in jail” and he even laughed as he fired his court appointed lawyer and wrote his own habeas corpus, making the Judge eat crow and rule he was right all along. He asked me many months ago to be his attorney and help him sue the State of Indiana for $12,000,000 because his wish was that Cindy always be taken care of when he was gone. He told me “Candice, I am so full of joy that it has finally come the time for this because I am 59 and there’s not much time left.” I guess he knew since he had the heart attack it would not be long. I wish he would have told someone so he could have seen a Cardiologist and maybe taken preventative measures. Thursday night, he was supposed to appear on Andy Ostrowski’s Justice Served and talk about our Foundation we planned together and our vision. The vision Tim had is growing rapidly as all of his wonderful friends who were waiting on Tim to help them in their case call me and we decide to pull together and carry his vision forward. He said it was oppressively hot and his asthma was bad, but he was going into cardiac arrest.

Cindy cried as she gave him CPR desperate to save his life, but the hospital determined he was dead 10 minutes. Most of you know it’s over after that, but we kept thinking he would sit up and go “Let’s get out of here.” I was supposed to go to Indiana in October and have steaks on the lake with Cindy as we planned our campaign going forward. He sent me that and I share that with you and ask you to join me and make his dream come true. Thursday night, they froze his body to prevent brain damage and yesterday began to heat it back up slowly to 95 degrees, which Cynthia Stephens told me is actually a life saving and capacity saving blessing for him. Doctors said as they warmed him, he could go into cardiac arrest again, though his heart rate was only 30 ppm until Cindy came and spoke with him and prayed, it spiked to 80 momentarily. Today, the slowly removed the sedation though they were already certain it was too late because he did not begin breathing even 1%. He began to suffer seizures, requiring that he be resedated into a coma. It’s not possible to bring him back and his lungs and heart are being kept alive on machines. I suppose the blessing for him is that Indiana could not make him incapacitated and he was never incapacitated, but an absolute genius. He kind of looked like Einstein and I would have asked him if he had a haircut this decade if I had met him. As this happened, I had the idea

It’s a book but not about me. It’s about an “incapacitated “ (tongue in cheek) genius saving all of us intellectuals and making a MOCKERY OF THE COURT by having the last laugh proving them all wrong. And in fact, that is exactly what I believe is happening. ! It’s bizarre and he will be the “Erin brokovich” of the ADA because while he was “incapacitated”, he sat in his basement studying the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 to master it and come up with a brilliant plan to end the captivity of people suffering in guardianship for good. He understood long ago the power of the ADA and now, we will see it come to pass. I have enough drafts he made to finish the work he began for clients who asked for our help in just the past weeks. The first lawsuit will be filed in Houston, Texas before month’s end. As I thought of this book, I thought of the scripture, “God uses the foolish things of the World to confound those thinking themselves wise.” And so the Book will be entitled “A mockery of the Court” because that is what Tim did best. I have a vision in my head of just how big this is going to be and trust me, you will sit stunned as you see it too. Cindy Damron was by his side for 24 years as he roughed it out without much money working to free other people from guardianship as a paralegal.
Just this week, two very senior attorneys with decades more experience than me joined me and saw the vision Tim had and their expertise is probate, guardianship, ADA, and Civil Rights Litigation under Section 1983. We also were blessed to have a man who is a former corporate executive who retired to join the cause and end this travesty / cancer killing our elderly and disabled in what Congress deemed a National Disgrace 30 years ago. It’s still a National Disgrace and more so. We will begin in Texas and the saying goes, “So goes Texas, so goes the Nation.” I’m not sure why, but that’s kind of what I think. Florida, Nevada, California, Missouri, North Carolina, Pennsylvania and many others come next. God will make a way to help us in our journey forward because it’s just time.

About a week ago, Tim wrote the Fundraising Crowd Presentation he envisioned and it is based upon the Freedom Riders of the 1960’s, something he had to explain to me having not been born! lol. Here is what he wrote:

Stop the discrimination now because not one of us will ever escape growing old


The Foundation for Elder Justice is a non-profit civil rights advocacy organization seeking tax exempt status to go past awareness into Action and our slogan is ADA in action! We need the public’s support, please.

Our mission is to protect, preserve and advance every person’s civil and human right to ‘personal autonomy’ and self determination as they age and become vulnerable due to disability and incapacity.  One need not be old to be stricken by disability or incapacity but as our aging baby-boomer population grows even older, the elderly and disabled are particularly vulnerable and many a parent and family across the country are being victimized by a state run system which in 1987 the U.S. Congress declared to be “A National Disgrace”1.

In both growing numbers and frequency across the country, news reports, victims’ stories, and shocking details are emerging about these issues of significant pubic importance.  Sadly, for many in America growing old and/or being disabled is or has been an absolutely terrifying event.  You can read the stories for yourself – but know in advance that a common theme in most every one of these stories is that lives and families are being torn apart and devastated, left in ruin — family members are being forcibly separated and isolated from one and other while family fortunes and peoples’ entire retirement and life’s savings are being preyed upon, completely liquidated and consumed by courts and complete strangers under the  gyves of “guarding” and “conserving”. Know too before you read – often times death is visiting these families while they struggle desperately to find justice for their elderly and disabled loved ones.

In the 1960’s it took a few brave and daring souls to make a difference, to go where no man or woman, no black man or black woman anyhow, dared to go.  A group of  brave and daring souls boarded a caravan of buses and they began their “Freedom Ride” across the segregated south.  The story, the events and the results made history, and moved the masses to recognize the human dignity of every human being whether black or white.  The issue of systemic discrimination had made its way into the public discussion and into living rooms across America, and as a nation we were forced to face an ugly truth.  Bigotry is real.

In 1990 the United States Congress passed the Americans’ With Disabilities Act (“ADA”).  Hailed as “the emancipation proclamation for disabled Americans”, the ADA was passed to remedy what Congress found to be Jim Crow laws for the disabled, who were considered not worthy of protection or even quality of life.  In 2004 the United States Supreme Court affirmed the authority of Congress to strip state and local government of their immunity from liability for violating our nation’s anti-discrimination public policy.  There is an emerging trend of state and local governments, even several state court judges, who are in fact having to answer for violating these federal laws – a movement to challenge the status quo and decades of disability discrimination is underway.

I ask you to join us on our Freedom Ride as we sweep the Nation with ADA lawsuits and take back our liberty, happiness and justice and go boldly where everyone but us has gone before.

-Tim Lahrman, 2016

As I think of the year of friendship and especially the past three weeks, I learned what Tim looked like, something I was always curious of and I thought what an odd couple of mutt and jeff we would have been – Einstein and Legally Blonde. But, this past week Tim finished the work on several cases we are working together. I only wish he had made it until October or November, when I thought maybe I could sue Indiana for Tim and begin the process of restoring what had been taken from him for more than 1/2 his life. Job was restored in the Bible twice  what he lost and he lost everything as Tim did. Heartbreaking is the fact that Tim lost his children 15 years ago to his ex-wife, something that he secretly mourned. His guardian abandoned him 15 years ago and he sued him but the Court held he lacked the capacity to maintain the lawsuit—knowing if they let it go forward, the Judge / Guardian was toast. Imagine the catch 22 he was in, yet strangely when I asked if he wanted me to restore him officially, he said no. Tim was happy whether in jail, or in guardianship. It really didn’t matter to him because he was confident he was anything but incapacitated.

As he praised God for his dream finally coming true on Thursday, and I told him, this is going to explode like wildfire, he sent me a Billy Joel Song, “We didn’t start the fire”. In other words, it’s time to reap what you’ve sown corrupt cabal. We didn’t start the fire, it was always burning as the World was turning! Incidentally, Einstein and the Mafia are mentioned in the song. I have no idea what the song means, but he did.

He leaves behind his beloved Cindy, who is the sweetest little thing I think I ever imagined. She loves him so deeply—every last aspect of Tim, even his feet, who most agree should have socks on! LOL! I attach pictures of the two so that you see the little 4’9” sweetheart who stood by his 6’1” side going fishing and sitting by the lake having steaks for 24 years. In October, I was going to have a steak with them and stare at the stars. Then we were going to Florida and he was coming to Texas. Wednesday I asked  him how he was always so happy and he just told me he enjoyed every last simple thing in life and tried to savor every moment. He didn’t seem angry or bitter and I believe he forgave each and every person who ever harmed him. He liked to argue and made a lot of people mad, but I hope you know that it wasn’t malicious. He had a mischievous streak and liked to stir the “POT.” For those of you that know what happened in March, you will get the joke in that. If not, I have to leave you with something that I absolutely KNOW TIM WOULD WANT. He would never want anyone to cry. He would want you to laugh and he will get the last laugh if I have much to say about it.

Tim lived a good life and did not drink. He was not by any means excessive, but he liked to smoke pot and made no secret of it. Maybe it allowed him to tolerate the difficult 30 years he endured and have a positive outlook on life, really wanting for nothing. It certainly did not dull his mind. Because I know he would want you rolling in laughter, which is not the appropriate response, but neither was laughing as they put him in solitary confinement for firing his lawyer and writing his own briefs. I posted a picture of a marijuana leaf in an email to him at the time that said “Weed miss you” so I leave you with a request that you laugh and celebrate Tim’s goodness and that he was never incapacitated and now he is free and doesn’t need anything to experience joy. Please know that this was my idea to ensure you leave with peace. I have a weird sense of humor, like Tim. Ok, get ready for this…the first is a command related to our civil rights movement.. If you aren’t prepared to giggle, you might want to stop here and just say a prayer. For the record, I do not personally indulge, I simply don’t judge others as I have known friends with devastating chronic pain who have benefitted medically and feel “to each his own.” Everything in moderation. Whether you loved Tim, knew him only in reputation, or he drove you crazy, he left a mark.

Now for some fun…Since we didn’t get to eat steak..

I will send out a link to the GoFundMe I am setting up to care for Cindy. That is what Tim wanted and I think he knows we are all going to make sure she is fine. Please pray and consider giving to the foundation for elder justice at because it will fund litigation across the nation to end guardianship under the ADA. It’s time to take ACTION!  ADA in Action!!

-Dedicated to Tim Lahrman



Candice L Schwager
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My sincere condolences –

Tim was a true friend  –  most importantly he stood up for what he believed in and gave tirelessly to the cause of making it safe to grow old in the United States of America.  He will be missed.

The atrocity that Tim suffered at the hands of the Indiana government is a stain on Indiana that cannot be erased without effort on the part of law enforcement.  Like Illinois, Indiana has a policy of ignoring the plight of the elderly and disabled who have been targeted by corrupt political figures and corrupt judicial figures for elder cleansing.    Tim escaped with his life from the corrupt judicial figures who conspired with his sibling to rob him of his estate; however Tim did not escape the pecuniary prison that literally stole from him his youth, his fortune, and his citizenship.    No one was interested in a travesty that should never have happened and was a monument to corruption and elitism of the people who run the political system in Indiana.   What happened to Tim could happen to YOU!

We need HONEST law enforcement to do an HONEST (AND COMPREHENSIVE) INVESTIGATION and if our allegation are confirmed – HONEST PROSECUTION of each of the miscreants who have been carrying out the WAR AGAINST THE ELDERLY AND THE DISABLED.  (NB.  if someone with clout is your enemy – even if you are young – like Tim was you can lose you freedom, your humanity and your property)

Each of the political candidates for President gives speeches that are filled with promises and naked statements as to their concern for the ‘little guy!’    Each candidate bleed tears BUT NEITHER TRUMP OR CLINTON has demonstrated that they can do much other than talk – and talk, and talk.    Neither has joined in a call for an HONEST INVESTIGATION.

(NB.  We call for an honest investigation by Honest law enforcement BECAUSE we believe in the constitution and equal protection of the law even though the political and judicial elite openly and notoriously deny us our basic Constitutional Rights with impunity.   We believe that the laws should be enforced equality without regard to age, race, color of skin, nationality, *****, without exception.     To us these words are not just words – they are core values.   We deplore the racism exhibited by the lawyer disciplinary commissions and in particular the Illinois ARDC.   We cannot rest when Lanre Amu is suspended for practicing law while black and Diane Nash is barred from an IARDC public assembly – especially when neither candidate for President (or any other member of the political community) has the courage to speak out.

Indeed, when the avarice of political elite (including Tim’s brother) denied Tim his citizenship (by the wrongful appointment of a guardian for profit) and literally stole his assets – not one Indiana political figure spoke out – indeed, none speak out today.  

Ken Ditkowsky

3 thoughts on “From Candice Schwager and Ken Ditkowsky-A Moment of Silence for Tim Lahrman, a wonderful guardianship activist

  1. Knowing what I do about the medicine business today (34 years at UCLA vs “modern” medicine of the 21st century which is now about eugenics), I can assure you they found out who Tim was and were not going to allow him out of the hospital to ruin their “gravey train”. The doctors are most definitely part of the problem, as are the hospital administrators. My dad is currently heing held captive by Kindred hospital at a charge of $6600 per day. Because we have refused to pay that unsupported, arbitrary high price (they ran out my dad’s medicare, turning a 2 week stay into a 1.5 year stay), the atrocities commited on my dad are horrific. Each day brings a new assault. Because Kindred has cornered the LTAC market, we cannot move him until he is well enough to go to a subacute facility. They are playing a game by telling us to move him, then doing something like turning off his oxygen while his trach is attached to the T bar. He does fine on room air, but that whole trach pipe system must be detached so room air can actually get to him. They even threatened us with guardianship because “we were not looking out for my dad’s best interests”. Really? He is being cared for in their facility. Our whole family is tapped out financially, emotionally, and I might even say spiritually. Because why would God let these devils thrive like this? We have seen numerous so called hospice patients given the Obamacare version of the Liverpool Care Pathway. When they came in they could walk, spoke well, seemed optimistic…and then the abuse started. Many times family members were told just to give up. So, well patients were started down the grist mill of hospice and after a week of starvation and dehydration, they vanished from the hospital…taken out the back to a minivan, because so many visits by a hearse would draw negative attention to the hospital. I am so sorry a warrior for the cause is gone. This cabal is so entrenched, is a group of very powerful, monied doctors, administrators, lawyers, judges, even review agencies like Medicare and the Joint Commission, Adult Protective Services, etc. are all involved, making the fight a living hell….every hour of every day! I hope you can take over for Tim. It will be a daunting task with so few people.

  2. I forgot to add that my brother has been banned from Kindred, due to a dispute involving a staff members mistreatment of my dad. This is an attempt to induce hopelessness in my dad and the family. My brother was just told, after not seeing my dad for 5 months, that he would only see my dad again when he dies, or is moved. But we can’t move him, his decubitis ulcer has gotten even worse. This is very hard on my mom who is 91 and needs one of us to accompany her up to see my dad. If I cannot go, she is on her own. The CEO even passed a “rule” recently and left a typed note at the reception desk that no staff member is to assist any wheelchair bound family member to go to the patient’s room. THIS WAS SPECIFICALLY INTENDED TO REFER TO MY MOM’S SITUATION…she was targeted in this memo, without using her name.

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